Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community - View Single Post

match000 · 12-01-2005, 12:11 AM

Hi Martian,

I see your point about 'probing'. I guess she'll expand on the subject herself, when given the chance, without having me 'probe it'.

That's a great point about the smooth part. I wasn't too sure either, but he suggests basically no hiccups, no awkward silences. There's no way I can pull that off.
Plus, I do agree, I need to take it slooower and wait for her to approach about it. I mean, yeah, poking at the subject now will be bad and putting her on the spot again..

Thanks, I understand about the its-my-decision part. I'm not trying to get a bunch of contradictory advice and ruffle people's feathers, I'm simply seeing how I can best handle the situation. I mean, I know people will disagree in their approaches, and I was prepared for that when I asked you guys and my friend. I was prepared to decide what is truly best, to merge the best of all worlds, and to make an informed decision given you guys' great (albeit differing) advice.

I guess if there's one thing I learned from college, its asking for help when you really need it. Believe me guys, your help was invaluable. Really.

You're right, she is confused. Argh...

Thanks for your help, again

12-01-2005, 12:11 AM	#43 (permalink)
match000 Psycho	Hi Martian, I see your point about 'probing'. I guess she'll expand on the subject herself, when given the chance, without having me 'probe it'. That's a great point about the smooth part. I wasn't too sure either, but he suggests basically no hiccups, no awkward silences. There's no way I can pull that off. Plus, I do agree, I need to take it slooower and wait for her to approach about it. I mean, yeah, poking at the subject now will be bad and putting her on the spot again.. Thanks, I understand about the its-my-decision part. I'm not trying to get a bunch of contradictory advice and ruffle people's feathers, I'm simply seeing how I can best handle the situation. I mean, I know people will disagree in their approaches, and I was prepared for that when I asked you guys and my friend. I was prepared to decide what is truly best, to merge the best of all worlds, and to make an informed decision given you guys' great (albeit differing) advice. I guess if there's one thing I learned from college, its asking for help when you really need it. Believe me guys, your help was invaluable. Really. You're right, she is confused. Argh... Thanks for your help, again Last edited by match000; 12-01-2005 at 12:32 AM..