Hi Mantus,
Working with vs working against. That's a great point. Again, though, I am not sure how to proceed 'making out' with a girl who has never had a BF (I had asked why and she said she had very high standards or something like that), who is a studious 18 year old freshman. Note, studious; like, nerdy compared to sorority girls.
EDIT: heck, I'm at her level too. I have 0 experience making out. well, like 0.0001...
Well, regarding the steady flirting: I'll be honest, I am a horrible flirt. Yet, I just get the vibe that when we are talking, we aren't treating each other as just friends. Like, I'm not. And my hunch is she isn't either. So, in a sense, although we aren't flirting too much, we aren't exactly 'just friends' either.
Umm, regarding my friend's advice that I posted, yeah, I'm not sure. I just posted it cuz that is what he suggested. It's not that I haven't learned from what you said before.
My friend said that the first time I fucked up (well he says he doesn't believe its a fuck up, but I do of course), I caught her off guard and she didn't know what to say so she just said "I don't know." My friend says what if she went home, talked it over with her best friend, then came with a decision: "I will date this guy." So my friend suggests that I broach the subject again, and give her the chance to say "yes" or something like that.
Yeah, I know, it is all very contradictory.
Thanks, hope you didn't storm out too far
