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Horrible eating habits, eh?
In this day and age, people either care about their physical fitness or they don't.
Sounds like she fits into the second category and the only reason she wants to lose weight is because society tells her she should be 115lbs.
If she is truly interested in shedding pounds, eating right is a place to start. Does she know how? Does she know just what is in each soda, each hamburger? When you are with her, rather than eating out, try making her breakfasts, lunches, and/or dinners that are balanced. Offer to go walking/running/jogging/biking with her in the mornings or evenings. Keep an open dialogue about your workout regime and healthy eating habits, then encourage her to develop her own.
Something about that message caught my eye: Once a month every month for the last year. There is a time in my cycle that I just feel bloated and fat. It's like this for a lot of women. She may be complaining about this aspect of womanhood rather than her actual physical fitness.
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