You really have my respect. I wish you the best of luck with your newfound job description (father). I'm confident based on your posts that you will be a wonderful influence in their lives.
There is no way you can be held responsible for her behaviors and thoughts. Don't worry about that at all... and don't get back together with her. 
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"The question isn't who is going to let me, it's who is going to stop me." (Ayn Rand)
"The truth is that our finest moments are most likely to occur when we are feeling deeply uncomfortable, unhappy, or unfulfilled. For it is only in such moments, propelled by our discomfort, that we are likely to step out of our ruts and start searching for different ways or truer answers." (M. Scott Peck)
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