When you've been in a relationship as long as I have, 23 years.
It is on you if you cheat. You love your partner very much but,........
One of you still wants sex 5 times a day and the other partner wants it once a year.
Got news for you. You won't be happy with the the compromise
after talking to your partner and they promise to love you twice a year.
Sooo you stray then hate yourself but you keep exploring the forbidin.
You clean up nicely and live your double life.
Or, Remember your vows and take them seriously (for better or worse)
And live depressed!
Love and sex can become separate over time and not be the most important issue.