I am against you meeting her casually. Again, you are not assertive enough. My point would be to retreat for some time (1/2 weeks maybe more), but not to ignore her. Just be more distant. Go out with other girls. Tell her about it. She will then realize that she misses you (or not) and that is when you should make a clear move. Invite her to dinner (but don't pay!).
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