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Hi IBlade,

Hmm. You guys all seem to advocate the straight-up, no 'lets-be-friends' stuff, and just date right off the bat.

However, two of my good friends have suggested the other route (true, alot of people aparently get stuck in friends zone with this): be really good friends, and don't care for one minute if it turns out romantic or not, but just have fun and hang out alot. Eventually you will hang out so much that she figures: "Hmmm... he might as well be my bf. So ok, he's my bf now". That's how one of my friends got his gf.

Plus, although I majorly fucked up, my fuck-up was an attempt to reach out and be clear what my intentions are. I see your point that my intentions were not clear enough at the onset, and so when I approached her about it she was confused.. perhaps.

But now that we are on the way to fixing it, and after my fuck-up she definitely knows my intentions, so I think the ball is in her court.. I'll just keep continuing to initiate hang-outs ('dates')...

I think this is the way I'm going to go, but of course keeping the chemistry and romantic touches going, as you, Mantus, and Martian suggest.


Thanks!