I'm really glad that you guys can take some time out of your lives to help a fellow brother out. You don't know how much comfort, and guidance, your advice is giving me now. For that I'm very grateful. (ok dont want to get too mushy...)
UPDATE:
So tonight I had a late dinner, and called her up and asked if she wanted to keep me company as I ate. I said 'yes or no' and she agreed
So it *is* getting close to finals and she was studying, yet she agreed to take time out on a Tuesday night. Yay.
So we had a great conversation as I ate, I mean, it wasn't anything tremendously deep (I don't want to fuck up again, as I'm *horrible* at deep conversations with girls). But it was fun and light, and not awkward at all. And she wasn't in any rush to leave, or anything.
Soooooo, I think it's slowly being fixed
Of course, I have to keep trying harder, but she's given me a 2nd chance and hopefully it will work out.
Definitely the ideas that both you guys have suggested will come in handy; don't put her *sooo* high that I am 'nothing', and don't get too pushy but definitely make sure I'm still there romantically. I'll try the coffee+rose idea when I feel the time is ripe; right now is too early I think, just after I fucked up with that deep question stuff.
Oh, she can't take alot of caffeine at all. Even tea would give her jitters... I guess its umm, a hot chocolate then
Thanks!
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