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Martian, thank you for the wonderful reply. As I read it, alot of it clicked and made sense, and it has given me a much clearer picture of what I need to do.
Also, thanks for being honest and telling me where I went wrong.
I do have a question, I thought she wanted things slow meant that I should call her less frequently or talk less (ie on IM). Cuz, weirdly since that day she hasn't been on AIM at all I think, or in invisible mode or something.
At this stage where I just f*cked up and she's so confused, does it make sense to call her everyday? Or does she just want some space? Or is afraid of me now?
Also, my friend suggested I ask her to go study together? Because that gives us time together, but satisfying her concerns of getting good grades.
Your right about the someone instilling boyfriend == bad grades. Her mom told her not to get a BF and to concentrate on her studies. There are no religious barriers, she is agnostic/atheist.
Alot of what you said made sense. I really did put her on the spot, the signals question was *horrible*. Erg, I feel like a doufus/douchebag. This was the first girl to really, *really*, show a lot of interest in me. Don't mean to sound cocky, but I'm pretty sure of that.
Thanks buddy.
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