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Nope. Not at all. If it got to that point, then you either face your SO and break it off, or face them with your issues of neglect.
With my very first girlfriend, I had such a chance. I was horribly mentally abused by this girl, neglected, and made to feel like shit all the time. Her best friend, who was way hotter than her, was all over me- not touching me, but flirting mercilessly. It was bad. She knew my weakness (boobs) and exploited them. Thinking back on the scene she made, I still get goosebumps- that's how good she was, and how bad it was for me. But, despite that, and my feelings of (my SO) "needs to be taught a lesson", I still could not bring myself to cheat.
On that note, if I could have called my SO on the phone and broken up with her right then and there, I could have railed her hot friend like there was no tomorrow. Since I was still officially tied, i couldn't do it.
Side note: My mind also briefly wandered over into "I don't have to let her know we're broken up the moment I decide it... as long as I know the tie is cut, that's enough." Since this seemed specious at best, I still couldn't do it. Damn my morals.
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