Here is a little secret that most parents know -- They have no clue what they are doing and make it up as they go along. Seriously.
For the first few months after my son was born I kept waiting for his parents to show up to take him home. Funny thing is, you can always manage.
Freaking out is normal. Don't take the mother back unless you truly love her and want her. That decision should have little to do with the kids.
As money and housing isn't a problem the only real (potential) problem is you. Are you ready for this? From the sounds of it, you probably are... do you have family (siblings, parents, etc) who can be babysitters in a pinch? Can you afford a Nanny?
I say more power to you. Go for it.
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"My hands are on fire. Hands are on fire. Ain't got no more time for all you charlatans and liars."
- Old Man Luedecke
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