Wrongful doing is simply that. Cheating, which I would assume to fall under this category shouldn't be given any special status, unless one's life depended on it. Somehow, I find that highly doubtful. Most of what we do functions out of having choices. Even if the relationship you are currently involved proves to be fruitless, you still have the option to leave. The choices and potential end results may not be favorable but granted, they are still choices.
Can someone FEEL driven to cheat, sure. Any unhappy relationship inevitably leads to a desire to fulfill what's missing. Can someone BE driven to cheat? The answer is no. (unless you have a gun to your head, at that point, I think you've got bigger problems than just this moral dilemma). You have options, it is your right and duty to exercise them as "morally correct" as possible.
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