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UPDATE:

So we grabbed dinner and then went on a walk tonight.

I was trying to initiate more physical contact such as having my arm around her or holding hands; she didn't distance from them but she was not actively keeping them going either.

So after some casual talk I asked her how she felt the other night when we were holding hands. She said "she felt like it was going too fast." Then she said "I don't think I'm ready to have a boyfriend now." To which I said "whoa, I'm not talking about that, I just meant casual dating."

Then I asked "do you see me as more than a friend" and she said "I don't know. I don't really know."

Then I said initially I thought of her as just a friend until I got all these interest signals from her, which was why I hung out with her more. Then I asked her "Why did you give all those signals." And she said "I don't know."

Since we are both in the same club, she asked me "So will it be awkward now in the club meetings."
To which I said "No, why should it be. We haven't done anything at all, I was just asking you because I wanted to know." And she said "Oh ok, yeah that's right."

I think freshmen ARE really confused.

How should I proceed. I think it's going to be really hard...

EDIT: oh yeah, she also told me her mom told her she shouldn't get a boyfriend. but everyone's parents say that..