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Originally Posted by Gilda
Isn't there some in-between area?
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Nope. Or, at least, not from where you are. ANY step outside your comfort zone looks dangerous to you right now. I'm telling you: your choices are to stay where you are and learn to like it, or do something risky.
Also, re "I just AM boring, and here's the evidence," I just call bullshit. There's no fixed way you "are", as an innate property. You think when you were a week old, your mother held you and said, "Oh, look at my boring child." No. At some point early in your life, you chose boring. At ANY point after that, you can choose something else, if you're willing to overcome the inertia of that first choice.