About 5 1/2 yrs ago I was dating a guy. Going into it I told him that I was not looking for a long term relationship, I was basically looking for regular sex. I told him this straight up. After about 4 months, he told me that he loved me, and I started to hardcore flirt with other guys when he wasn't around. That is when I realized that I should break up with him. I didn't cheat on him, I broke up with him before I would have and hurt him even more. I figured that as soon as he said that he loved me, I should break it off before he got any more attached to me, since I was never gonna love him in return.
I guess what I'm saying is, if you are unhappy in a relationship, don't cheat, just break up with them. It saves a lot of heartache in the end.
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