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Originally Posted by Ace_O_Spades
I have a friend who is guilt ridden because his girlfriend cheated on him multiple times, then convinced him it was his fault because he neglected her.
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Wow. That's some serious mind manipulation there.
Saying something like that is just an excuse for her to absolve herself of the guilt she felt. She needs to take ownership of her own feelings and not blame others for her feelings. If she was unhappy, fix the problem or walk away. It's simple. You don't have to cheat.
Cheating is despicable.
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