I could definitely use the excuse that I was driven to cheat on my last boyfriend because he turned neglectful and uncaring and constantly lied and blah blah blah... but I do believe it was my responsibility to end the relationship when it turned this way instead of cheating on him. Even the mere urge to do things with other people should've been a sign that I probably didn't want the relationship anymore anyway.
I've definitely learned form what I've done in the past. I now believe there is absolutely NO excuse for cheating on your significant other. No one "drove" me or "forced" me to cheat, I made the choice -- I have no right to blame another person for that choice.
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