I can understand what you mean, m'dear. When it seems like the whole world is getting to do what you are wanting and wishing for, it makes it harder.
Talk to Quadro, if you haven't already. He was in a similar situation - I was ready, and I let him know it, and I was getting impatient. Meanwhile, he was getting everything set. He didn't want to just say "hey wanna get married?", he wanted to make a thing of it, when he was ready to. Perhaps your SO just needs time to prepare his thoughts, his actions - it's amazingly a big adjustment to the way you think about things... takes some getting used to.
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My heart knows me better than I know myself, so I'm gonna let it do all the talkin'.
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