drainpipe

This is probably my first e/n post in any forum.

I honestly have no idea how to proceed with this girl (we'll call her Amy).

Amy's a college freshman and I'm a sophomore. I've talked to her pretty much since the beginning of the school year. Almost three weeks ago, I told Amy that I liked her, and she said she liked me, too. Unfortunately, I also heard from other reliable sources that, even though Amy likes me, she does not want to be in a serious relationship right now (which I completely understand), but would rather just casually date and get to know each other better and see where that leads. I invite her to come over and watch movies a lot. Sometimes we hold hands and end up talking for two hours or so afterwards. We have also been on one date, and, being very shy, I made almost no body contact of any sort. We are also going to two concerts, one with a group of friends this week and after this semester by ourselves.

My question for you, the knowledgable denizens of TFP, is what should I do? I would like to get beyond just holding hands, but I'm also afraid of scaring her off.