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Because I said so.
Why do parents think that "Because I said so" is a valid reason for doing things?
Would it not be more effective to explain your reasonings behind something than to make what they say unquestionable.
I have a firm belief that this way of parenting has helped make me unable to deal with my parents when I disagree with them, beyond retreating from the situation and crying. I also believe that this way of parenting has helped the violent and agressive way that my brother responds to my parents.
They're good parents all around, except for this one thing. But I think it's a big thing.
So parents out there, please explain to me: Why do you, or even, do you do the "because I said so" routine? What do you think this accomplishes?
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