Why in holly hell are you asking her abot BFs and relationships for? Avoid these subjects like the plague or run the risk of becomming her therapist or worse being associated with all the bad things that happened before. Remember, any past relationship/BF is one that went wrong.
If you want her values ask about them directly.
What is romance, what is a perfect evening, what's the best thing a guy can do for her, etc.
Perhaps she is actually not sure. In that case she would be looking for someone to open things up for her (pun intended), to charm her. If you think the first guy who'll get in her pants is going to be perfect think again. It's probably gona be some big asshole who will get her into bed within a few days and never call her again. Thats what happens to virgin college girls.
Now about your relationship with her so far.
She touches you, but does she move her body closer? Do you touch her? How does she respond when you close the distance? Have you had any - we should kiss right now - moments?
You are looking for intimacy here. If you havent had any intimate moments yet. Are you paying for these outings? If you are, I think you are "just a friend".
The best way to find out, is to make a bloody move.
Last edited by Mantus; 11-22-2005 at 08:08 AM..
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