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maleficent · 11-22-2005, 05:36 AM

How many times have you gone out with her? and what are you defining a relationship as. Relationships happen over time.. you can't just say I want a relationship with you -- and expect it to magically happen.

It's a pretty big generalization of your friend to say that freshmen are unstable, more than likely, for most it's their first time living away from home and some handle it better than others. I'm almost 41 years old, and men still confuse me, and on any given day, I'm not sure I know what I want in a guy... it's not something that all women are born knowing because it can change regularly.

Go with what you feel - ask her out - spend time with her - and form your own opinions..

Do what you want to do...

11-22-2005, 05:36 AM	#4 (permalink)
maleficent Junkie Moderator Emeritus Location: Chicago	How many times have you gone out with her? and what are you defining a relationship as. Relationships happen over time.. you can't just say I want a relationship with you -- and expect it to magically happen. It's a pretty big generalization of your friend to say that freshmen are unstable, more than likely, for most it's their first time living away from home and some handle it better than others. I'm almost 41 years old, and men still confuse me, and on any given day, I'm not sure I know what I want in a guy... it's not something that all women are born knowing because it can change regularly. Go with what you feel - ask her out - spend time with her - and form your own opinions.. Do what you want to do... __________________ Free your heart from hatred. Free your mind from worries. Live simply. Give more. Expect less.