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No worries man, you're not alone with this. I'm going through the same thing myself, but felt better when i realised i miss the closeness and companionship more then the girl. She's probably reluctant to be friendly with you because she's hoping to move on with her life, and avoid the baggage that relating with you will give her. It's OK to try to keep the friendship going, but acknowledge that your relationship with her will never be the same again, and you'll probably come to a time when getting closure on the relationship, forgetting her and moving on will become more important than trying to keep talking with her. (I'm toying with the idea of deleting my ex's MSN name and phone-number at the moment, but am determined to at least get my CD's from her first)
Best i can recommend is to join some new clubs, and try lots of new things you wouldn't normally be doing. Don't go out there trying to meet girls; Try to make some new mates, and get to know new people (male or female), and that'll build up your friendship group, and increase your chances of meeting nice gals in the future. When you're on your own, keep yourself occupied with some new hobbies (I started cycling lots) and you won't feel so bummed out. Most of the guys i know are all looking for a special someone, so it's not gonna be easy, but you're definately not on your own.
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