Sportswidow, try visiting your local bookstore's love and sex section. There are a few books that you read with your SO and fill out as you go. You both read the question (what is your favorite position, what is your favorite fantasy, etc.) and then you each write down the answer on a piece of paper and then swap them. I did this with a GF awhile back and it was great because you get to know your partner really well and I actually learned a few things about myself!
Using a questionare for lovers book is great because you aren't probing him for his darkest secrets, the book is. Plus, there maybe a few things that come up that you may not have thought of. Hope that helps.
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