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11-18-2005, 08:29 PM

It makes sense. We refuse to admit that we do know the opposite sex VERY well.

Here it is:

WOMEN want communication, closeness, attention, quality time together, romance, gifts....

MEN want sex.
Oh, and alone time, to feel independent and powerful.

Ok- so wouldn't it just be cuttin' the crap if we just say it? "I understand the opposite sex." Then, if we learn to give what the other needs, with acceptance and love, wouldn't couples be a lot happier? Marriages last?

It takes two to tango, if you haven't figured that out yet. :P

I am finally aknowledging this now in my current relationship of 7 months, and it has been so wonderful- there are still sparks and I don't feel like they are going to ever dissipate. Ya know those "fresh love" feelings? Still there and still intense. It still trips me out to this day. I can't help but look at him and be so happy with the person I am with. And when he looks into my eyes or touches me, I melt every time.

Why? Because- we communicate, we do things for each other that we know the other likes (really without ever having to ask), we're honest and straightforward, but we are full of gtatitude of each other that we harldy ever argue- and if we do, we can't stand being mad at the other, so we make up within 5 minutes.
AND- it is incredible in bed with him. Amazing every time. And I have seriously never been so horny in my life. Why? Again- because he satisfies my needs and desires as well. We also just mesh very well personality-wise.

So, in that, it makes everything as a whole so significant.

And even though we are flat broke, we couldn't be happier. Both coming out of bad past relationships, we did not expect this. But we mutually agreed to make a pact- to make this a wonderful, working relationship.

11-18-2005, 08:29 PM	#1 (permalink)
:::OshnSoul::: Guest	Can't figure out the opposite sex? It makes sense. We refuse to admit that we do know the opposite sex VERY well. Here it is: WOMEN want communication, closeness, attention, quality time together, romance, gifts.... MEN want sex. Oh, and alone time, to feel independent and powerful. Ok- so wouldn't it just be cuttin' the crap if we just say it? "I understand the opposite sex." Then, if we learn to give what the other needs, with acceptance and love, wouldn't couples be a lot happier? Marriages last? It takes two to tango, if you haven't figured that out yet. :P I am finally aknowledging this now in my current relationship of 7 months, and it has been so wonderful- there are still sparks and I don't feel like they are going to ever dissipate. Ya know those "fresh love" feelings? Still there and still intense. It still trips me out to this day. I can't help but look at him and be so happy with the person I am with. And when he looks into my eyes or touches me, I melt every time. Why? Because- we communicate, we do things for each other that we know the other likes (really without ever having to ask), we're honest and straightforward, but we are full of gtatitude of each other that we harldy ever argue- and if we do, we can't stand being mad at the other, so we make up within 5 minutes. AND- it is incredible in bed with him. Amazing every time. And I have seriously never been so horny in my life. Why? Again- because he satisfies my needs and desires as well. We also just mesh very well personality-wise. So, in that, it makes everything as a whole so significant. And even though we are flat broke, we couldn't be happier. Both coming out of bad past relationships, we did not expect this. But we mutually agreed to make a pact- to make this a wonderful, working relationship. Last edited by :::OshnSoul:::; 11-18-2005 at 08:34 PM..