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Old 11-18-2005, 06:18 PM   #70 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by sweetpea
excellent point denim.

which includes editing posts if she wants too Without repercussions from other members

now, now don't jump on me for saying this anyone... i would just like to point out:

Keep in mind, none of you (at least to my knowledge) are professional therapists, which is the kind of individual Gilda is used to getting advice from and bouncing these issues off of, and although all of you have much to give and much personal experience... you must understand it's quite different speaking about these integral and emotional issues with all of you than with her actual therapist... so bear in mind, Gilda takes every word each person says to heart, the things you say (negative or positive) can have great affect.

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If you cannot look back as to where you come from you'll never really know where you were or how you got there. They show the tree of evolution of animals so that you can see how to connect the dots from point a to point b.

And to add to Denim's post and your agreement. She may have felt foolish after rereading those posts, but those posts were her at that exact moment. They were her real self at that moment.

Having been to therapy myself, the only reasons I know I grew outside of them was because I kept my own track, which good number of people do not do. Most of us here at TFP are interested in personal growth to some degree be it in ourselves or just understanding other people. My point of stating that it's a shame to lose the posts, is simple. They are part of the conversation that flowed and followed.
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