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Old 11-17-2005, 05:48 AM   #14 (permalink)
shakran
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Originally Posted by little_tippler
I disagree that this was a good thing to do. There are better ways to solve problems with your child than publicly humiliating them...and potentially traumatising them for life. I think it's good to be an active and caring parent, and try your best with your kids, but this is going too far.

Exactly how is this going to traumatize her? Are you suggesting that whenever we get embarassed we never recover from it? Really, this pop-psychology obsession with traumatization is just not grounded in reality. It'll traumatize her while she's holding the sign. Probably for a few days, maybe even a week afterward. Then she'll get over it, hopefully having learned a lesson. By saying this is going to traumatize her for life you're equating a behavior modification tool with sexual abuse.
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