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Simivin, you just expressed precisely my point in your previous post... I'm shocked.
Losing one's virginity is a rite. Because it is anchored in our subconscious, in our cultural background. It makes you a man depending on what you consider being a man or not. I agree that in no way it proves maturity. But I personnally see in it a test of manhood. Making love to a woman is in someway proving that you are a man.
Now, the best way to answer this thread is to make clear comparisons: Before/After.
The first one I see is:
Before: I kept thinking about it.
After: I thought about it a lot less.
Therefore, I feel more relaxed, more cool in some way.
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