You need to really sit down and think hard about not just the kind of life that YOU want but also about the kind of life you'd wish for your wife and any future kids to have.
You loved this woman enough to marry her,love her enough now to either man up and get some counseling to help you clarify your thoughts and recommit to your marriage or divorce her and move on. Whatever you do, don't stick around for 10 yrs and 2 kids halfheartedly committed but pursuing everything in a skirt.
We all have the right to pursue happiness, including your wife, make sure she gets the same options you want for yourself.
Last edited by uptown; 11-15-2005 at 01:44 AM..
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