iamtheone, go here -
http://forums.civfanatics.com - although it's a bit of a mess right now due to the state of the game. You've got half the people on the board who can't get the game running or have endless problems, and then you have the apologists who refuse to believe there are any problems with the game.
Anyway, this would be a great game if it wasn't totally bug ridden and broken. I'm eagerly awaiting a patch, because it's constantly crashing, slowing down sometimes, there's definitely a memory leak, and the whole thing just feels incredibly rushed.