OK, so ive posted like one time only on this site, but since i had the EXACT same problem, in fact it led to the demise of my first relationship... so I'll post a reply.
First off, are you circumsised (i bet so, if not you can pretty much stop reading this it mostly wont apply), and how do you mastubate? Is it directy with your hand using lube? Are you sore afterwards? If this is the case, the first thing you can do... and its really difficult, is to go totally without... and i dont mean for a few days, like a month. A vagina, while nice and warm, gives no where near as much friction as a hand.
Secondly, theres foreskin restoration, and i read some other posts here in the archives that made fun of it (and it totaly seems crazy i know). But i did it for about 6 months, im no where near "restored" but i usually have flacid coverage (im definantly a "grower"), but when hard i still totally look cut. Anyways i can masturbate now the uhh, other way. By moving the skin up and down. Sex actualy gives more stimulation than this.
Thirdly, exercise some if you dont. It builds testosterone makes sex better, atleast for me.
And lastly theres something called Yohimbe. Some sort of root from Africa, that makes me atleast a bit more sensitive. But be carefuly with this stuff, really, while the pro effects are definantly there (unlike most other "magic pills") it has negative effects as well, i stay away from it now, use this as a last resort.
Basicly i think 2 things are what really helped me out, the lack of masturbation and keeping my penis head covered most of the time, sort of repaired it, a bunch of skin, or keratinization ive heard it called sloughed off, but also theres no some sort of deeper feeling, like maybe i had damaged some nerves i dont really know. And secondly, i think i got used to less friction.
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