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Originally Posted by el_soulman
Having been married now for 12 years, and been through the situation you are going through several times both prior to marriage and while married: give her space, love her unconditionally, and make her feel like she's a queen (gifts, back rubs, etc). Don't apply pressure - except to initiate/enjoy deep conversation. Applying any pressure will ONLY blow up in your face.
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Good advice. This way, even if the whole thing does go to shit, at least you went out with dignity and the "high road." Go as deep as you can with the conversation, and see how she responds. You can only control your own reactions, in the end.