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Originally Posted by simivin
Maybe I have wanted to date her all along and I've just been trying to supress that or ignore that feeling (that might be the case). It would be nice to finally resolve some of the curiousity both of us has felt for six or seven years, sure. But I'm really not sure I want that over my ex. Bummer of a dilemma, and one that only I can figure out, I guess.
I don't know. Part of me feels like I might just be beating around the bush, ignoring what is really there, or trying to force myself into something that I subconsciously don't prefer. Maybe the fact that this is a possibility says something, I don't know.
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I'm not saying anything bad about you, but if I was your gf, I would have broken up with you months ago once I realized how close you were to Sarah. It would be fine if your gf didn't mind playing second fiddle, but if she values herself, she'll move on from you.
There is something un-platonic about your closeness with Sarah, if you ask me (since she isn 't your gf). As much as you spent energy denying it, here it is, right back out there... in your own words. All I can say is that women's intuition is usually quite accurate. Not always... but often. Give your gf a little more credit instead of blaming her for not trusting you, eh?
I'd say you'd better date Sarah sooner than later, get the sexual tension out of the way, and get your "curiousity" for her out of your system before it sabotages any more relationships for either of you. Who knows, maybe she's been the right one for you all along...