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Originally Posted by ShaniFaye
Maybe Im still upset over my own wedding and thats clouding my judgement at the moment...but my sister, who was OFFCIATING part of the wedding didnt come because her husband had had surgery 3 days before and wanted her to stay at home with him, I have totally lost any respect I had for that man, and I am pretty sure I'd have no respect for ANY guy that had to be TOLD that a siblings wedding was important.
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Shani, sorry to hear there were complications. Not that it *really* matters, but was his surgery planned?
-Ever-
Another approach would be this: Reach out to her, ask her to dinner and a movie - a proper date. If she says something about "space", then respond, "Is all of this just punishment for the misunderstanding regarding your sister's wedding? Because I already apologized for that and told you that I want to go." That way, you force her to take a stand on her motivations for changing your relationship and you get to reiterate your intentions to attend the wedding.