If I had to bet, I would say that there is another guy in the picture. Having said that, if you want to give her space (opportunity), then feel free. Be very clear on your expectations regarding acceptable and unacceptable behavior.
This wedding thing is really confusing. It sounds like you are ditching your girl of two years at her sister's wedding so you can party on New Year's Eve?!?! I think I would question my future with you, as well. Talk about regrets: "I lost the girl of my dreams because her sister's wedding interfered with my party schedule."
I don't know the best approach at recovering from the damage this undoubtedly caused, but I think I would begin to focus more on conveying your intentions for your future with her.
I really do wish you the best of luck. This is a tough one.
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