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I don't assume to know what shes doing or have some unique insight into the female psyche. What I think you should do, and maybe the best thing for your relationship is to not sit on your laurels. Go out, get 'on the prowl' yourself. She needs some space? Use the time to get some space yourself. My favorite year of college was senior year. Renew old friendships and have a club night yourself. Don't go to where she is, go somewhere new. Don't call her obsessivly.
*NOTE* before doing this be clear to her that while you are 'giving her space' you expect that she is not cheating on you or betraying your trust at all. Be very clear about what you mean and when you go out stick to what you said.
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Go out, have a great time. Don't go out looking for anything but a good time. You'll have a good time. THe hardest thing will be to not think about her being out too but once you get over that you'll have a great time. DO NOT SIT AROUND while she is having a good time.
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Patriotism means being loyal to your country all the time and to its government when it deserves it.
--Mark Twain
Do What makes you happy
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BUT!
"Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness" - Chuang-Tzu
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