If this was done a long time ago, you had counseling, never did this again and felt bad about it and moved on and put this behind, I would say don't tell her. Do we tell all the things we did in the past when we meet someone? What if you did something stupid in the past, do you have to say everything? I don't think so. Only if it kills you not to. But then if you really put that behind, why bring this up 10 years later?
But if you are not sure about yourself doing it again, you should then tell her.
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