So he should tell her for the sake of 'getting it off' of his mind? I don't see how that could help him in any way.
A 14 year old murderer may be tried as an adult, but a 14 touching another child will certainly not be tried as an adult.
I guess if a man decided to tell me that he had "problems" having to do with molestation when he was younger, I would think the reason he needed to bring it up is because it is still a current problem.
Maybe there is acutally a women out there who will think that the "confession" is relevant to the relationships progress and needed or something.
