14 isn't a child... if he committed murder, he'd be more than likely tried as an adult.
You said that you haven't been punished for this... Do you want to be punished for this? If she ends it with you, would you see that as your punishment. the amateur shrink in me (who honestly has no idea what I'm talking about m ost of the time) but it sounds like you've got some unresolved issues with it. Have you made peace with yourself and forgiven yourself for what you did...
The problem as I see it, it will always be at the back of his mind, and unless he tells her the truth, I think he's going to have a tought time getting true intimacy with her, because there's always going to be something that he hasn't told her.
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