You guys never do fail me. I have so much to say to each of your brilliant and honest responses but that would take just forever.
Basically I was wondering if I was being a sucker by giving her space. Let me say that I have been able to get past the communication problems and we have had a good talk or two since without her "feeling cornered." I am an extremely honest guy and really just don't want her to take advantage of it. I'm fine with giving her room (even though that's a whole different story on how I get over the emotional parts of that alone, I just don't want to be taken advantage of.
Maybe the best combination of things to do is give her the space she wants and try extra hard on my friendly social activities to keep my mind off it. The only fear is that I don't give her enough attention and she starts moving in a different direction seeing that the space she has been given has become pretty large and maybe we never had anything much in the first place... Such a funky situation here. Man I need to get my mind off it.
I just don't like things that seem "right" (the relationship) to not work because of reasons that could have been fixed, so in other words I dread regrets. Like I wouldn't want this to not work out because I did what was kind (give her more room) and have that ironically be the thing that lets her think that getting back together with me might not be as important as previously thought.
Looks like this is going to be a somewhat constant struggle day by day with new things popping up here and there, but I'll try my best to do what you guys have said which I do agree with. There's just times when I hear faint uneasiness in her speech when she describes her plans, as if she's telling white lies an trying not to hurt me...This could easily be my imagination but I'm really trying to put emotion aside here and think of what is really going on
Any more thoughts would be much appreciated, even if just a comment here and there.