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Originally Posted by -Ever-
Thanks for the responses so far guys.
Skiier, the marriage question you asked is interesting. Her sister was recently proposed to and I told her that I wasn't going to make the New Year's Day (Jan-1) wedding because it was an odd choice and way too short of notice. The fact that I said I didn't think I would go has definitely been an important thing on her mind, along the lines of "I guess I assumed we were on a different level" type of comments. I think that's kind of BS though because of the situation. I do plenty of things for her as far as giving time to support her, her family life, her pretty strong Christian background, etc.
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Um, the wedding's way over a month away...I don't think that's too short of notice.
I'd bet that's what's got your girl "on the prowl" so to speak.
Have you thought about REALLY talking to her? That would solve a lot of your problems. If she isn't willing to chat--tell her it's either talk about it, or split. Communication is key--if you can't do it, you shouldn't be in a relationship (that goes for both of you).