You're going to have to tell her sooner or later. I vote for sooner. I can only imagine the sense of betrayal and violation she will feel if you end up dating for years and THEN you tell her this, knowing the whole time how she felt about molesters. It's difficult to know how she will react, but imagine what you would want if you were in her position: to know now, or to know after months/years of having this hidden. I don't think not telling her is an option if a long-term relationship is what you have in mind.
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