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I certainly wouldn't go breaking it off, so on that I disagree. As time goes on, if there's a good connection being made, easing slowly into the more detailed of your past would probably be the route to take, ie: 'I have some things I did as a kid I'm not proud of. Someday maybe I'll be able to talk about it'.
The emphasis is 'kid'. And you took steps to confront your wrongs, something not everyone does, so that's a positive and shows more maturity than if you tried to ignore or justify it.
We all make mistakes, some worse than others. While I certainly sympathize with the feelings of being molested, I think anyone worth having in my life is worth the time taken to know and understand and given a chance. Do YOU think you're worth the time to get to know?
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Don't blame me. I didn't vote for either of'em.
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