I was that same kind of poster girl. A big part of my elation (is that a word?) was that I discovered that sex WASN'T the kind of downer that my 'no sex before marriage' elders had brainwashed me to believe. It was way better than I'd been led to believe. Sex without strings IS fun, is NOT a major guilt trip, and I am NOT 'living in sin' so long as I am repecting my partner's body and emotions. I still get that 'high' at times after sex.
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"Always learn the rules so that you can break them properly." Dalai Lama
My Karma just ran over your Dogma.
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