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Originally Posted by abaya
Gilda:
It's amazing that this thread is still going... I hope it shows that we all really care about you, and hope that the advice/tools we are giving will come in handy if you are ever in a similar situation.
That said, I want to ask one thing:
When you are not in a comfort zone (classroom, home, or out with Grace), do you live in fear?
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Anxiety would be more accurate, but yeah, I'm a bit insecure about being out on my own. There are a number of factors involved that determine how comfortable I am. If I'm, say, at the mall in a women's clothing store, I'm ok, though I feel better if I'm with Grace or Sissy. If I'm in a place where most of the clientele is male, that tends to give me pause.
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Gilda, in addition to my last question in post #127, I have another question that occurred to me while I walked to class today:
If a boy at school (or even a male teacher) had brushed your breast on purpose, what would be your immediate reaction?
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I'd pull back and get away quickly, as I did here. If it were a boy, and I was absolutely sure he did it intentionally, I'd write up a behavior referral, and if he were in my class ask that he be transferred. If it were a teacher, and I were sure it was intentional, I'd file a complaint for sexual harrassment.
The problem comes with being sure it was intentional. I'm not a mind reader, so if it were an isolated incident, I'd probably assume that it was incidental, and just let it go so long as it didnt' recur. I'd certainly be reluctant to embroil myself in a situation that holds the potential for a lot of grief for both me and the other person, and in the absense of knowledge that it was intentional, I'd really want to avoid the negative attention that would likely come from reporting it.
Gilda