Wow is all I can say. You strength is commendable, both emotionally and physically. As far as I can tell Gilda your a Great if not Wonderful person, heal yourself, then try and heal your surroundings. You have a loving family that is there for and with you. Love them and be with them, you and them are all that matters right now.
I wish you a speedy recovery, and strength in all the moments you need it.