If I loved someone at some point, I don't care how badly I wanted to shove a brick through their face -- if they were hospitalized, I'd want to know what was going on. It's a testament to their character that they didn't react, and if anything it should only solidify your resolve. The above poster is very correct in saying that you guys handled it like mature adults -- the ball is in their court, and if they don't do anything, then your course is clear.
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