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Originally Posted by 5757
I usually attract men who want to boink - and then bounce. I want the 'nerdy' type. There are two reasons I never attract the "right" type. 1. Is because nerds are too intimidated to come up to me. 2. Is because nerds (somewhat intellegent people)(I live on Stanford campus) assume that an attractive female most likely won't have anything in her head except for air.  |
I think #2 is likely a small percentage of the problem, I think the biggest factor is #1... you're insanely attractive, and that makes some guys feel insecure, hesitant, and "sure she's taken"... that and someone as pretty as you makes some of us nervous just to stand near, let alone have a meaningful conversation. You may want to have a nice talk while taking a stroll somewhere, but all we can do is manage to mutter something about twinkies or lint.
As for me, I don't attract much to me... I usually have to get to know a girl a little, but then they fall in love with me quickly... and it's been that way with every girl i've been with... as soon as any meaningful interaction starts, they're already in love with me. *shrug* I'd rather attract women and take some time to work into love, because this makes finding good girls way harder.
That and, while i'm incredibly outgoing and social, I have ZERO ability to just walk up to a girl and start talking. I just can't.