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Originally Posted by Truenorth
After all the reading... and thinking...I have to tell you that I have found someone..... My wife... With all that she means to me and gives me, I guess that although the sex is kind of important, it is not the most important thing.
Thank you all for your advices....
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Good for you.....and wise.
Now that you have said that.....lemme tell you a little story:
There was once a man (Call him "T"), who was married to a frigid woman for many years. Sex was rare, and there was no love to be found in it."T" tried talking about the issue with her, and even went to councelling with his wife to try to get to the underlying issue.
Years of drought passed before he realized the woman he married had major sex issues, instilled in her by her mother. One night....seven years into the marriage "T" was trying one last time to be romantic,
massage, dinner, ego building....and he was met with this simple statement.
" I suppose it is my wifely duty"
They never slept together again....and were divorced three months later.
No Matter What....you need to try, make the attempt to "Fix" what is wrong in a relationship. But there may come a time, when the effort simply shows you the brick wall behind the door you finally open.