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Originally Posted by nightstuff
*wrinkles nose* hmm... yeah ok, you got me.
Didnt mean it like that though Sweetpea. Just used that line to emphasis my point that it was unfair to assume he meant marital rape, though I agree he sounded a bit creepy with his phrasing. For all i know, you've got a well-oiled dungeon in the basement 
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hehe no worries.
I'm into bondage myself and practice it in my own marriage.
I was pointing out that there is a difference between doing bondage together as part of a loving relationship and using bondage wrongly to "solve" a problem of not getting enough sex. That was what i was objecting to. Bondage won't solve anything for a situation such as this... only communication and being open about one's needs will.
back to the op, How is it going TrueNorth?? Have you discussed things with your wife?? We're all here if you still would like to talk about it.
Sweetpea